9. At last, allow me to end this article with a poem that conceived by me.
10. Journey
11. We, young, and our heart, youthful
12. Promise to met each other at certain place
13. If
14. Time elapses
15. If
16. We shall remember
17. We, young, and our heart, youthful
18. Encounter each other on the way
19. If
20. There are flowers and praises
21. If
22. Ever hesitate and pause
23. We, young, and our heart, youthful
24. Familiar with each other at an instant
25. If
26. Throbs and flushes come
27. If
28. Scars and hurts carve
29. When spring time gone
30. We, no longer young
31. When youth left
32. Young heart undergone spallation
33. Finally
34. Met at the Promised place
35. We, hand in hand, step to death with smiles
1. 冬天来临了。
2. 下班前一分钟,平淡的一天,收拾桌子,关电脑,和同事说再见,在同一时间踏出公司。
3. 冷冽的风让我意识到这已经是冬天,昏暗的夜色提醒着我夜晚的来临。从早到晚,一天又这样过去了。踏入地铁站,等着同样的那班地铁,车厢是同样的拥挤。说话声此起彼伏,拿出耳塞,同样的音乐同样的旋律。环顾四周,一切照旧,莫名的孤独感涌上心头。某个地方有些闷。
4. 无数个日子过去了,一遍一遍问自己,在这喧嚣的城市生活中我得到了什么失去了什么。也许决定对自己进行剖析是个错误的决定。曾有位朋友告诉我,毕业后的一段日子会陷入困境或者说是人生的低谷。也许这就是她指的那个时期。生命里留了许多罅隙,从中送来了死亡般忧郁的音乐。我失去方向是个事实。有句话说“哀莫大于心死”,如果我的心死了,除去无尽的悲伤还有什么是可寻的。
5. 踱出地铁,叹了口气。生活让我感觉困惑。回到自己的小屋,放下包,让音乐充斥整个房间。那本粘着灰尘的相册跳入我的眼帘,我搁那多久了?坐在床边,擦去灰尘,我翻开相册。第一眼见到的是几张年轻的笑脸,那是我大学的室友,这肯定是在大一拍的,那时的我们是那样的年轻和纯真。回溯到童年时代,自己是家中无忧无虑的公主,好成绩,漂亮衣服,有小朋友的围绕。日子过得没有任何负担。直至中学,我明白了学习是我唯一要做的事情,虽然我不知道为什么而学习。含糊的日子是最快乐的,因为你不用认真对待生活,因为你可以肆意挥霍时间。那段日子是我遇见我朋友的日子,最后,我们成为了知己。那些日子,天天有奇迹发生,笑声洋溢在教室四周。从那时起,我开始体会到那种纯纯的属于年轻人的友谊。记忆开始在脑海中闪过,无数无名的影像在脑中清晰地浮现。记忆的阀门一打开就无法轻易关上。整个晚上,我端着相册,用一杯咖啡打发了一个晚上。突然意识到我不曾失去过什么。朋友,亲人,父母,也许他们远在其他地方,但是可以在任何时刻想起他们,更重要的是,我拥有她们,拥有与她们在一起的记忆。
6. 第二天是周末。骑了自行车去了一个公园。我意识到当我放下一些东西时,我似乎轻得可以飞起来。我的思想随着这些闪耀的绿叶而闪耀;我的心灵应着日光的抚触而歌唱;我的生命因为偕了万物一同浮泛在蔚蓝的空间和墨黑的时间而感到欢快。原来,生活可以如此简单。
7. 每个人都会遇到让人困惑的事情,每个人都会迷失。不要悲叹过去,也不要醉生梦死。生命如同小溪,不急不缓。太多人太迟发现生活珍贵的一面。现今,我们都还年轻,我们不该总发牢骚,应该以更积极的态度去面对生活。因为上帝让你来到这个世界上必定有他的理由。品味生活,受苦,分享,直至最后了解生命的真谛,这是个过程。
8. 冬天来临了,春天紧随其后。生活仍然在继续。
9. 最后让我用自己的一首诗来结束这片文章:
10. 路途
11. 年轻的我们,年轻的心
12. 相约在某个地方
13. 是否
14. 时间过去了
15. 是否
16. 你我还记得
17. 年轻的我们,年轻的心
18. 相遇在旅途
19. 是否
20. 有鲜花,有赞赏
21. 是否
22. 曾停滞不前
23. 年轻的我们,年轻的心
24. 相知在那一瞬
25. 是否
26. 曾有悸动
27. 是否
28. 也有创伤
29. 当韶华逝去
30. 年轻的我们不再年轻
31. 当青春不再
32. 年轻的心经历了蜕变
33. 最终
34. 在相约的那个地点相遇
我们携手共同笑着走向死亡
Get A Thorough Understanding Of Oneself彻悟自己
1. In all one’s lifetime it is oneself that one spends the most time being with or dealing with. But it is precisely oneself that one has the least understanding of. When you are going upwards in life you tend to overestimate yourself. When you are going downhill you tend to underestimate yourself. It’s likely that you think it wise for yourself to know your place and stay aloof from worldly wearing a mask of cowardice, behind which the flow of sap in your life will be retarded.
2. To get a thorough understanding of oneself is to gain a correct view of oneself and be a sober realist—aware of both one’s strength and shortage. You may look forward hopefully to the future but be sure not to expect too much, for ideals can never be fully realized. You may be courageous to meet challenges but it should be clear to you where to direct your efforts.
3. To get a thorough understanding of oneself needs self-appreciation. Whether you liken yourself to a towering tree or a blade of grass, whether you think you are a high mountain or a small stone, you represent a state of nature that has its own reason of existence. If you earnestly admire yourself you’ll have a real sense of self-appreciation, which will give you confidence. As soon as you gain full confidence in yourself you’ll be enabled to fight and overcome any adversity.
4. To get a thorough understanding of oneself also requires doing oneself a favor when it’s needed. In time of anger, do yourself a favor by giving vent to it in a quiet place so that you won’t be hurt by its flames; in time of sadness, do yourself a favor by sharing it with your friends so as to change a gloomy mood into a cheerful one; in time of tiredness, do yourself a favor by getting a good sleep or taking some tonic. Show yourself loving concern about your health and daily life. Unless you know perfectly well when and how to do yourself a favor, you won’t be confident and ready enough to resist the attack of illness.
5. To get a thorough understanding of oneself is to get a full control of one’s life. Then one will find one’s life full of color and flavor.
1. 人生在世,和自己相处最多,打交道最多,但是人最不了解的也恰恰是自己。当你一帆风顺时,往往高估自己;不得志时,又往往低估自己。你可能认为安分守己、与世无争是明智之举,而实际上往往被怯懦的面具窒息了自己鲜活的生命。
2. 彻悟自己,就是正确认识自己,做一个冷静的现实主义者,既知道自己的优势,也知道自己的不足。我们可以憧憬人生,但不要期望过高。因为在现实中,理想的实现总是会打折扣的。你可以勇敢地迎接挑战,但是必须清楚自己努力的方向。
3. 要彻悟自己就要欣赏自己。无论你是一棵参天大树,还是一棵无名小草,无论想要成为一座高山,还是一块石头,你都是一种天然,都有自己存在的理由。只要你认真地欣赏自己,你就会拥有一个真正的自我,你才会拥有信心。一旦拥有了信心你就能战胜任何灾难。
4. 要彻悟自己,就要善待自己。在气愤时善待自己,找个僻静之处宣泄一下,不要被那些无名之火伤身;忧伤时,要善待自己,找个好友倾诉一番,让低迷的情绪高涨起来;劳累时,你要善待自己,睡个好觉或者吃点滋补品,对自己的健康和生活关心备至。唯有知道如何善待自己,你才会信心百倍,从容不迫地准备应对疾病的侵袭。
5. 彻悟了自己,你才能把握自己的生命,你的生活才会丰富多彩、有滋有味!
Everyday is A Gift每一天都是上帝赐予的礼物
1. My brother-in-law opened the bottom drawer of my sister’s bureau and lifted out a tissue-wrapped package. “This”, he said, “is not a slip. This is lingerie.” He discarded the tissue and handed me the slip.
2. It was exquisite, silk, handmade and trimmed with a cobweb of lace. The price tag with an astronomical figure on it was still attached.
3. Jan bought this the first time we went to New York, at least 8 or 9 years ago. She never wore it. She was saving it for a special occasion.